Make them as your guard

I read to the author of the Little Literature: (The wise man must keep people of mind company with himself and encourage them to do so, so that they become guards over his hearing, sight and opinion, so he can draw attention to that, and make his heart at ease for him, and know that they will not ignore him if he is heedless. About himself) A. e. So I said: What is meant by the wise person in this matter: He is the one who searches for the truth and the straight path and does not care about anything else in order to obtain reward and rewards from the Lord of lords. What is meant by those with hearts are a group of people to whom God has given wisdom and guided them to correct thought. They are intelligent thinkers, and the core is the mind and the heart, and here it is necessary. The wise person has the right to accompany these people and leave the foolish people who do not advise, do not teach, and do not learn. If you are wise, you will seek out the person who has reason and advice, be his companion, and stick to his door. In this way, you will dispense with the foolish people, whose presence essentially raises prices and causes crowding in homes. After that, the wise man must have these companions dare against him. The goal is to make them neither fear him nor fear him. The purpose of this is so that they will not remain silent about him if he makes a mistake, and will not be ashamed of him or fear him. In this regard, we should always welcome advice and not show anger because this makes rational people not care about us if we get angry at every piece of advice they give us, so they say when they see a mistake on our part (This is so-and-so, do not advise him, he gets angry and...). Therefore, the man of good manners urged us to accept advice in a beautiful way. It is for reasonable people to dare against us, so they are not ashamed of us or afraid. When they find a flaw in us, they advise us and do not fear our anger, and in this way they become our guardians. If we make a mistake, they say we made a mistake, and this is a state that kings and sultans do not reach because their prestige and the fear of those who advise them make them continue making mistakes because they do not The presence of an advisor... who dares to advise them... From the book Life Skills by Ibrahim Al-Shamlan